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	<title>Comments on: The Becoming People Who Comment Challenge, #4</title>
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	<description>It is way better to be me than to be someone who has to deal with me.</description>
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		<title>By: Work Blog Police Getting You Down? &#171; Armaggedon&#39;s coming</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12349</link>
		<dc:creator>Work Blog Police Getting You Down? &#171; Armaggedon&#39;s coming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 23:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] TJ mentioned a little Firefox [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Gnomeaggedon</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12297</link>
		<dc:creator>Gnomeaggedon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice one!

I don&#039;t really have the time to comment right now, but it&#039;s too late because I have started. 

Reminds me of a little post I did ages ago...

I will dig it up...

Meanwhile, it&#039;s been nice commenting. 

Thank you!</description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t really have the time to comment right now, but it&#8217;s too late because I have started. </p>
<p>Reminds me of a little post I did ages ago&#8230;</p>
<p>I will dig it up&#8230;</p>
<p>Meanwhile, it&#8217;s been nice commenting. </p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Lara</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12292</link>
		<dc:creator>Lara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 01:32:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh hey, no rush. Hope that didn&#039;t sound like a hint, heh.</description>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12186</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are totally not being a baby. I talked about this with a couple people recently about replying to comments. I used to only do it through email, then tried doing it on the site as well. Sometimes I reply to NO ONE and sometimes I try to reply to EVERYONE and it&#039;s so hard to find the right balance that doesn&#039;t eat too much of my time but also doesn&#039;t make me look like an asshole.

HOWEVER - no matter how much I comment back, I do READ every single comment and I do recognize names, and I try not to let someone comment more than a couple of times before they get some kind of response from me. I don&#039;t think that&#039;s unreasonable, and it&#039;s something that I, personally, try to stick to. Now, when someone is getting thousands of comments, it&#039;s different, but I try very hard to at least do that much. I can&#039;t commit to answering everything, but I do try to make sure that every person gets some response at some point.

You&#039;re not being a baby. I definitely understand where you&#039;re coming from, and understand it from both sides. I can pretty much 100% assure you, though, that even if you don&#039;t get responses (even if that is kind of lame), the blogger definitely does not hate you. I promise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are totally not being a baby. I talked about this with a couple people recently about replying to comments. I used to only do it through email, then tried doing it on the site as well. Sometimes I reply to NO ONE and sometimes I try to reply to EVERYONE and it&#8217;s so hard to find the right balance that doesn&#8217;t eat too much of my time but also doesn&#8217;t make me look like an asshole.</p>
<p>HOWEVER &#8211; no matter how much I comment back, I do READ every single comment and I do recognize names, and I try not to let someone comment more than a couple of times before they get some kind of response from me. I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s unreasonable, and it&#8217;s something that I, personally, try to stick to. Now, when someone is getting thousands of comments, it&#8217;s different, but I try very hard to at least do that much. I can&#8217;t commit to answering everything, but I do try to make sure that every person gets some response at some point.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re not being a baby. I definitely understand where you&#8217;re coming from, and understand it from both sides. I can pretty much 100% assure you, though, that even if you don&#8217;t get responses (even if that is kind of lame), the blogger definitely does not hate you. I promise.</p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12184</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:13:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is just about the best thing that has ever happened to the entire Internet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is just about the best thing that has ever happened to the entire Internet.</p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12182</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:12:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know, freakin&#039; adorable! I still have others, too, and I am totally going to send them to you as soon as my fingers are free.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know, freakin&#8217; adorable! I still have others, too, and I am totally going to send them to you as soon as my fingers are free.</p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12181</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AMAZING, RIGHT?</description>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12180</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is why people should remember to send in their email, or I have nothing to feature!</description>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12179</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve decided to just thunder into comment sections all willy nilly, throw my words out there and thunder away without thought to looking a little silly or repetitive. If I give myself too much time to think about it, I end up deleting everything and slinking away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve decided to just thunder into comment sections all willy nilly, throw my words out there and thunder away without thought to looking a little silly or repetitive. If I give myself too much time to think about it, I end up deleting everything and slinking away.</p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
		<link>http://temerity-jane.com/?p=1826&#038;cpage=1#comment-12178</link>
		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve noticed the motivation to comment thing, too - if I don&#039;t do it immediately, I&#039;m not likely to do it. I need to work on that, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve noticed the motivation to comment thing, too &#8211; if I don&#8217;t do it immediately, I&#8217;m not likely to do it. I need to work on that, too.</p>
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